Being a High School teacher these past two years, I can’t help but be reminded that my high school graduation was 13 years ago. I can still remember telling myself I was going to leave my hometown, move to another state, and leave New Mexico in my rearview mirror and never turn back. Two years later I moved to Tucson and started a new adventure.
Then it happened, culture shock. Here I was a small town Northern New Mexican, in a city full of people who had no idea what green chile was. I can still remember the puzzled looks I got when I went to McDonald’s and tried to order a green chile double cheeseburger. My biggest problem of all is I didn’t know how to cook.
I was unfortunate enough to spend my entire childhood growing up in the foster care system, and wasn’t trusted with anything less than a butter knife. The only tool that I had at my disposal, was my ability of observation. Growing up I didn’t have anyone to teach me how to cook, all I could do was be a spectator while others prepared meals around me.
I couldn’t believe it, I was homesick. Not that I really had a home to come back to, but I was homesick for the simple comfort of the food I grew to love. I made it my personal vendetta to recall all the visual recipes that I had locked in my brain in order to enjoy my favorite meals. It was not easy especially when I didn’t have the means of a computer and the internet, smartphones weren’t as common as they are today.
Everything I tried was through trial and error, and believe me I made a lot of mistakes. The fist time I tried to make red chile I made the mistake of using cornstarch as a thickener, and throwing up right after my first bite.
I am back home in New Mexico now, I guess I couldn’t stay away. It’s funny how something as a lack of a home cooked meal can make someone homesick. Now that I am a father and hopefully a better cook, I don’t want my daughter growing up not knowing how to prepare a meal. We live in a time where we are always in a rush and food from a box or a drive through is so much easier than cooking, because of these conveniences, I see people take for granted the art of cooking.
We need to take the time out of our busy week and get the whole family involved in preparing your meals. these will definitely be memories you will cherish as well your children.
Until then Happy Eating!